" Why I broke up with you"

"WhyI broke up with you"
Hey,
When we met, you were the most confident girl-you always had
something smart or funny and sarcastic to say. You pushed my
button in a good way. I loved being with you,so I asked you
out. And At first, dating you was amazing- I felt like I'd met my
match.But after about a month,it all started to change.
You didn't speak up
The first thing I noticed was how you stopped making your
own decisions-everything was left up to me,which was weird.
It was like you had lost your personality overnight.
Seriously, everytime I asked you what restaurant we should
eat at or what movie you wanted to see, you'd shrug your
shoulders and say that you didn't care.Then, when I'd go
ahead and make the decision for the both of us,you'd start
sulking,as if it wasn't what you had wanted. Constantly having
to deal with your childish pouting really got on my nerves because
there wasn't anything I can do about i. there was no way for me
to know what you were thinking unless you had to told me
-I'm not a mind reader. If you had just been more straightforward
and said what would have made you happy,I would have done
it for you-but you never gave me that chance.
You didn't trust me
The next thing I knew, I started getting tons of phone calls
from you-like, eight or nine a day. You didn't have anything
to talk about, so it felt like you were just checking up on me.
I remember one day when I was at my job,you called a few times
I didn't pick up because i had work to do, but that night
you flipped out and demanded to know what had been going on
that was more important than our relationship. If that wasn't
crazy enough, just a few days later after you you hinted that
I might be hooking up with some female friends. Anyone who
knows me knows I've never thought about doing anything with them
besides being their friend-so that was ridiculous.I cared about
you and trusted you,but you didn't trust me,and that hurt. I was always
faithful because I liked you and respected you, but you
never seemed to respect my right to have a life outside of us.
I need a girl who will trust me as much as I trust her.
Otherwise, there's nothing to build a relationship on.
You overanalyzed
I'm only human, so sometimes when I say things, they come out
wrong. But whenever I said something that would upset you,
you'd never tlak to me about it-you'd stew over it for days
until you got so upset about what I "meant"that you'd explode
in a full-blown tantrum. It got to a point where you were analyzing
everything I did or said. I can remember time where I didn't even say
anything to you, and you'd decide I was angry or trying to hurt you,
And Because you thought about it for so long before metioning
it to me, it was impossible to make you believe anything else. If
you'd asked me what I meant at the time or told me that you were upset,
I would have been able to explain-or apologize if I needed to.
But you were constantly picking me apart-and pretty soon it just wasn't fun
to be around you anymore.
I wish you luck
I've heard you're with a new guy now-and that things aren't
going well. I guess you didn't learn much from me,but I hope
someday you do. Deep down, I know you're still the fun girl you
were when we first met. One day you'll be a great girldfriend
to some guy if you can learn to relaz a little.It's just too late
for that guy to be me.
Take Care,
ALex